politely。 The vendor1 didn’t even acknowledge it。
“A sullen2 fellow； isn’t he？” I mented。
“Oh； he’s that way every night；” shrugged my friend。
“Then why do you continue to be so polite to him？” I asked。
“Why not？” inquired my friend。 “Why should I let him decide how I’m going to act？”
As I thought about this incident later； it occurred to me that the important word was “act。” My friend acts toward people； most of us react toward them。
He has a sense of inner balance which is lacking in most of us； he knows who he is； what he stands for； how he should behave。 He refuses to return incivility3 from incivility； because then he would no longer be in mand of his own conduct。
When we are enjoined in the Bible to return good for evil； we look upon this as a moral injunction—which it is。 But it is also a psychological prescription for our emotional health。
Nobody is unhappier than the perpetual reactor。 His center of emotional gravity is not rooted within himself； where it belongs； but in the world outside him。 His spiritual temperature is always being raised or lowered by the social climate around him； and he is a mere creature at the mercy of these elements。
Praise gives him a feeling of euphoria； which is false； because it does not last and it does not e from self approval4。 Criticism depresses him more than it should； because it confirms his own secretly shaky opinion of himself。 Snubs hurt him； and the merest suspicion of unpopularity in any quarter rouses him to bitterness。
A serenity of spirit cannot be achieved until we bee the masters of our own actions and attitudes。 To let another determine whether we shall be rude or gracious5； elated or depressed； is to relinquish control over our own personalities； which is ultimately all we possess。 The only true possession is self…possession。
敢于梦想（1）
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生命！多么宝贵的礼物啊，这是上帝赐予人类的。我们应该为能生活在这样一个美好、充满生机和无限可能的世界里而感到幸福！然而，灾难降临了，这份“礼物”给人的感觉更像是一种诅咒、一场灾难。“为什么？为什么倒霉的是我？”我们不解。我们永远无从知晓其答案，不是吗？我七岁时得了霍奇金病（译者注：这是一种病因不明的疾病，特征为淋巴结及肝脾进行性肿大及贫血），只有六个月的存活时间，而我却奇迹般地战胜了病魔。运气、希望也好，信念、勇气也罢，总之，世界上有几千个这样的幸存者！我们这些胜利者知道答案——“为什么我们没有失败，因为我们控制了它！”癌症没能将我击垮。我与癌症并存。无论以后遭遇什么困难，我都不会恐惧了，因为天生我材必有用。
大二时，班上举行一英里赛跑。那一天我永生难忘。因为手术，腿上留下了很多肿块和疤痕。我怕别人嘲笑，在恐惧中生活了两年。整整两年，我都没穿短裤。但那天，我不在乎了。我准备好了——短裤，心理和思想也都早有准备。我来到起跑线前，周围立刻议论纷纷。“好臃肿！”“真胖！”“难看死了！”对这些议论，我充耳不闻。
然后，教练大喊：“各就各位——预备——跑！”我像离弦的箭一样冲了出去，开始的20英尺，我跑得比谁都快。那时，我还不太懂控制速度，那也没关系，因为我下定决心要第一个冲到终点。一共要跑四圈。第一圈时，跑道上随处可见同学的身影。第二圈快结束时，许多同学都放弃了，停下来拼命地喘着气。当我开始跑第三圈时，跑道上只剩几个同学了，我的步履也开始蹒跚。第四圈时，跑道上就我一个人了。我突然意识到，并没有人放弃，而是他们都跑完了。跑最后一圈时，我哭了。我知道自己输给了班里的所有同学。跑了12分42秒后，我终于冲到了终点。我跌坐在地上，汗如雨下。我简直羞愧难当。
突然，教练跑过来，把我抱起，喊道：“你成功了。曼纽尔！曼纽尔，你做到了，孩子。你跑完了！”他手里挥动着一张纸条，注视着我。我忽然想起来了，那是上课前我交给他的，是那天我为自己制定的一个目标。他大声地把纸条读给大家听，上面简单地写着：“我，曼纽尔？迪耶特，无论如何，都要完成明天的一英里赛跑。痛苦和挫折并不能将我击退。因为，上帝赐予了我力量，使我有足够的能力实现这一目标，相信自己一定可以。”署名为曼纽尔？迪耶特——在字母“D”当中，我画了一张笑脸，这是我署名的一个习惯。我深受鼓舞，像吃了香蕉一样甜蜜，不禁破涕为笑。同学们都站起身来鼓掌，这是我生平第一次得到如此“礼遇”。就是在那时，我意识到，胜利并非总意味着最先完成某事，有时，仅仅完成某事也是胜利。
… 心灵小语
现代社会中有太多的不如意，生活中有太多的无奈与不协调，但我们不能因此而消沉。因为生活中还有许多美好，值得我们去体味、去珍惜。
Dare to Dream
Anonymous
Life！What a precious1 gift from God。 What a blessing to be alive in a wonderful； vibrant world of unlimited possibilities。 Then； adversity strikes； and this “gift” feels more like a curse2。 “Why？ Why me？” We ask。 Yet we never get an answer； or do we？ After contracting Hodgkin’s disease at age seven and being given six months to live； I triumphed over the odds。 Call it luck； hope； faith or courage； there are thousands of survivors！ Winners like us know the answer—“Why not us？ We can handle it！” I’m not dying3 of cancer。 I’m living with cancer。 God doesn’t make junk； regardless of what es our way； and I don’t have to be afraid anymore。 txt小说上传分享
敢于梦想（2）
In my sophomore4 year of high school； the class was scheduled to run the mile。 I will always remember that day because due to the swelling and scars from surgery on my leg； for two solid years I had not worn shorts。 I was afraid of the teasing。 So； for two years I lived in fear。 Yet that day； it didn’t matter。 I was ready —shorts； heart and mind。 I no sooner got to the starting line before I heard the loud whispers。“Gross ！”“How fat！”“How ugly！” I blocked it out。
Then the coach yelled； “Ready。 Set。 Go！” I jetted out of there like an airplane； faster than anyone for the first 20 feet。 I didn’t know much about pacing then； but it was okay because I was determined to finish first。 As we came around the first of four laps； there were students all over the track。 By the end of the second lap； many of the students had already quit。 They had given up and were on the ground gasping for air。 As I started the third lap； only a few of my classmates were left on the track； and I began limping。 By the time I hit the fourth lap； I was alone。 Then it hit me。 I realized that nobody had given up。 Instead； everyone had already finished。 As I ran that last lap； I cried。 I realized that every boy and girl in my class had beaten me； and 12 minutes； 42 seconds after starting； I crossed the finish line。 I fell to the ground and shed oceans。 I was so embarrassed。
Suddenly my coach ran up to me and picked me up； yelling；“You did it。 Manuel！Manuel； you finished； son。 You finished！”He looked me straight in the eyes； waving a piece of paper in his hand。 It was my goal for the day； which I had forgotten。 I had given it to him before class。 He read it aloud to everyone。 It simply said；“I； Manuel Diotte； will finish the mile run tomorrow； e what may。 No pain or frustration will stop me。 For I am more than capable of finishing； and with God as my strength； I will finish。” Signed； Manuel Diotte—with a little smiling face inside the D； as I always sign my name。 My heart lifted。 My tears went away； and I had a smile on my face as if I had eaten a banana。 My classmates applauded and gave me my first standing ovation5。 It was then I realized winning isn’t always finishing first。 Sometimes winning is just finishing。
勇气是才能（1）
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勇气就是敢于冒险，勇于进取，勇往直前。在工作和生活中，你经常对自己的思想、行为或动机提出质疑吗？若你不锻炼经常检验自己的能力，你不仅会丧失信心，更重要的是，你认识自我、朋友和客户的能力也将丧失殆尽。
面对抉择与挑战时，你要时刻警醒自己，这样可以使勇气倍增，也可以发现对自己至关重要的东西；同时，对你有意义的特殊情形，你想获得的结果或解决问题的方法也会凸显出来。
很多人都不能过上他们理想中的生活。如果现实与理想相去甚远，不要怨天尤人。要清楚你希望达到的目标，然后对你追求目标所采取的行动进行检验，看其适当与否。把你的回答与别人对你寄予的期望加以比较。要记住，事业的成功和生活的美满都需要深入地了解自己，并确立适当的目标。
勇气能让人形成自省的习惯，并让你的感受真实、适当。假如你想成长起来并获得成功，把这种自我评价运用到工作和生活中就显得很重要了。这个方法确实有效。
好奇之心，人人都有，但好奇需要勇气（切不可过分）。学习一些生活常识，以及了解与你打交道的人是大有裨益的。无论你想做什么，都要努力找到该做的理由来说服自己，这对活跃你的思维很有好处。如果写日记对你有帮助的话，你就应该去做。一段时日过后，可以回头看看，在某一问题上，你曾经的行动（或反应）所产生的结果。这样，在面对未来或类似的问题时，你就会有的放矢。
认清自己的弱点并极力加以改进。要不断地给自己注入生机和活力，并记住生活总会不时地检验你处理问题的能力和勇气。当你懂得欣赏工作和生活中的挑战时，你就会发现自身潜在的力量。而后，你就会获得内心的安宁与精神的慰藉，这样有助于你更好地建立自信和自尊。
每个人的内心都有一些东西，可以激发我们的动机、热情和理智以获取成功。想要增加信心，就要不断地鼓舞自己冒一些必要的风险。审视自己的动机，然后寻求答案。倘若你有获得成功的勇气，不要轻信自己或他人对此的怀疑。重要的是你自己。
切不可让消极思想妨碍你的进步或目标的实现。控制你的思想，想想什么事对你是重要的。积极的思想，可以使你重振旗鼓。不论挑战多么大，如何频繁，不论它怎样影响你的情绪，千万不要向消极的思想屈服，要义无反顾地站起身来继续前行，并把注意力集中在那些给你力量和个性的事物上。
谨记：无论是生活中，还是工作中，获取成功的动机、热情和理智，都是你目标实现不可或缺的条件。生活需要有平静的思想，坚强的性格以及适当的信念和信仰，不断地思考。这样才能磨练你的勇气。
… 心灵小语
即使面对困境、挫折，我们也要有勇气去追寻我们的梦想，不轻易妥协、放弃。即使最后失败了，我们也不会遗憾！因为，勇气也是一种才能。
Courage Is a Gift
Anonymous
Courage is daring to be Brave， Enterprising； and Bold。 In your business or personal life； how often do you question your thoughts； your actions； or your motives？ When you don’t exercise the ability to always test yourself； you may lose not only your confidence； but more importantly； you lose the ability to focus； to know yourself； your friends； and your customers。
When faced with decisions and challenges； asking yourself questions every day； every hour； every moment gives you the courage to discover what is important to you and what a particular situation means to you； and what result or solution you will like to acplish。书包 网 。 想看书来
勇气是才能（2）
Not many people experience life the way they want it to be。 If things don’t work out the way you want； don’t find someone else to blame。 Know what goals you want； then question your actions in reaching them。 pare your answers to what othe