consideration； or doing me a service。
A man of business had a small property in trust for me。 I was to be
a governess； I became a governess； and went into the family of a poor
nobleman； where there were two daughters……little children； but the
parents wished them to grow up； if possible； under one instructress。 The
mother was young and pretty。 From the first； she made a show of behaving
to me with great delicacy。 I kept my resentment to myself； but I knew
very well that it was her way of petting the knowledge that she was my
Mistress； and might have behaved differently to her servant if it had
been her fancy。
I say I did not resent it； nor did I； but I showed her； by not
gratifying her； that I understood her。 When she pressed me to take wine；
I took water。 If there happened to be anything choice at table； she
always sent it to me： but I always declined it； and ate of the rejected
dishes。 These disappointments of her patronage were a sharp retort； and
made me feel independent。
I liked the children。 They were timid； but on the whole disposed to
attach themselves to me。 There was a nurse； however； in the house； a
rosy…faced woman always making an obtrusive pretence of being gay and
good…humoured； who had nursed them both； and who had secured their
affections before I saw them。 I could almost have settled down to my
fate but for this woman。 Her artful devices for keeping herself before
the children in constant petition with me； might have blinded many
in my place； but I saw through them from the first。 On the pretext of
arranging my rooms and waiting on me and taking care of my wardrobe （all
of which she did busily）； she was never absent。 The most crafty of her
many subtleties was her feint of seeking to make the children fonder of
me。 She would lead them to me and coax them to me。 'e to good Miss
Wade； e to dear Miss Wade； e to pretty Miss Wade。 She loves you
very much。 Miss Wade is a clever lady； who has read heaps of books； and
can tell you far better and more interesting stories than I know。 e
and hear Miss Wade！' How could I engage their attentions； when my heart
was burning against these ignorant designs？ How could I wonder； when I
saw their innocent faces shrinking away； and their arms twining round
her neck； instead of mine？ Then she would look up at me； shaking their
curls from her face； and say； 'They'll e round soon； Miss Wade；
they're very simple and loving； ma'am； don't be at all cast down about
it； ma'am'……exulting over me！
There was another thing the woman did。 At times； when she saw that she
had safely plunged me into a black despondent brooding by these means；
she would call the attention of the children to it； and would show them
the difference between herself and me。 'Hush！ Poor Miss Wade is not
well。 Don't make a noise； my dears； her head aches。 e and fort
her。 e and ask her if she is better； e and ask her to lie down。 I
hope you have nothing on your mind； ma'am。 Don't take on； ma'am； and be
sorry！'
It became intolerable。 Her ladyship； my Mistress； ing in one day when
I was alone； and at the height of feeling that I could support it no
longer； I told her I must go。 I could not bear the presence of that
woman Dawes。
'Miss Wade！ Poor Dawes is devoted to you； would do anything for you！'
I knew beforehand she would say so； I was quite prepared for it； I only
answered； it was not for me to contradict my Mistress； I must go。
'I hope； Miss Wade；' she returned； instantly assuming the tone of
superiority she had always so thinly concealed； 'that nothing I have
ever said or done since we have been together； has justified your use of
that disagreeable word； 〃Mistress。〃 It must have been wholly inadvertent
on my part。 Pray tell me what it is。'
I replied that I had no plaint to make； either of my Mistress or to
my Mistress； but I must go。
She hesitated a moment； and then sat down beside me； and laid her hand
on mine。 As if that honour would obliterate any remembrance！
'Miss Wade； I fear you are unhappy； through causes over which I have no
influence。'
I smiled； thinking of the experience the word awakened； and said； 'I
have an unhappy temper； I suppose。' 'I did not say that。'
'It is an easy way of accounting for anything；' said I。
'It may be； but I did not say so。 What I wish to approach is something
very different。 My husband and I have exchanged some remarks upon the
subject； when we have observed with pain that you have not been easy
with us。'
'Easy？ Oh！ You are such great people； my lady；' said I。
'I am unfortunate in using a word which may convey a meaning……and
evidently does……quite opposite to my intention。' （She had not expected
my reply； and it shamed her。） 'I only mean； not happy with us。 It is
a difficult topic to enter on； but； from one young woman to another；
perhaps……in short； we have been apprehensive that you may allow some
family circumstances of which no one can be more innocent than yourself；
to prey upon your spirits。 If so； let us entreat you not to make them
a cause of grief。 My husband himself； as is well known； formerly had a
very dear sister who was not in law his sister； but who was universally
beloved and respected。
I saw directly that they had taken me in for the sake of the dead woman；
whoever she was； and to have that boast of me and advantage of me； I
saw； in the nurse's knowledge of it； an encouragement to goad me as
she had done； and I saw； in the children's shrinking away； a vague
impression； that I was not like other people。 I left that house that
night。
After one or two short and very similar experiences； which are not to
the present purpose； I entered another family where I had but one pupil：
a girl of fifteen； who was the only daughter。 The parents here were
elderly people： people of station； and rich。 A nephew whom they had
brought up was a frequent visitor at the house； among many other
visitors； and he began to pay me attention。
I was resolute in repulsing him； for I had determined when I went
there； that no one should pity me or condescend to me。 But he wrote me a
letter。 It led to our being engaged to be married。
He was a year younger than I； and young…looking even when that allowance
was made。 He was on absence from India； where he had a post that was
soon to grow into a very good one。 In six months we were to be married；
and were to go to India。 I was to stay in the house； and was to be
married from the house。 Nobody objected to any part of the plan。
I cannot avoid saying he admired me； but； if I could； I would。 Vanity
has nothing to do with the declaration； for his admiration worried me。
He took no pains to hide it； and caused me to feel among the rich people
as if he had bought me for my looks； and made a show of his purchase to
justify himself。 They appraised me in their own minds； I saw； and were
curious to ascertain what my full value was。 I resolved that they
should not know。 I was immovable and silent before them； and would have
suffered any one of them to kill me sooner than I would have laid myself
out to bespeak their approval。
He told me I did not do myself justice。 I told him I did； and it was
because I did and meant to do so to the last； that I would not stoop to
propitiate any of them。 He was concerned and even shocked； when I added
that I wished he would not parade his attachment before them； but he
said he would sacrifice even the honest impulses of his affection to my
peace。
Under that pretence he began to retort upon me。 By the hour together； he
would keep at a distance from me； talking to any one rather than to me。
I have sat alone and unnoticed； half an evening； while he conversed with
his young cousin； my pupil。 I have seen all the while； in people's eyes；
that they thought the two looked nearer on an equality than he and I。
I have sat； divining their thoughts； until I have felt that his young
appearance made me ridiculous； and have raged against myself for ever
loving him。
For I did love him once。 Undeserving as he was； and little as he thought
of all these agonies that it cost me……agonies which should have made him
wholly and gratefully mine to his life's end……I loved him。 I bore with
his cousin's praising him to my face； and with her pretending to think
that it pleased me； but full well knowing that it rankled in my breast；
for his sake。 While I have sat in his presence recalling all my slights
and wrongs； and deliberating whether I should not fly from the house at
once and never see him again……I have loved him。
His aunt （my Mistress you will please to remember） deliberately；
wilfully； added to my trials and vexations。 It was her delight to
expatiate on the style in which we were to live in India； and on the
establishment we should keep； and the pany we should entertain when
he got his advancement。 My pride rose against this barefaced way of
pointing out the contrast my married life was to present to my then
dependent and inferior position。 I suppressed my indignation； but I
showed her that her intention was not lost upon me； and I repaid her
annoyance by affecting humility。 What she described would surely be
a great deal too much honour for me； I would tell her。 I was afraid
I might not be able to support so great a change。 Think of a mere
governess； her daughter's governess； ing to that high distinction！ It
made her uneasy； and made them all uneasy； when I answered in this way。
They knew that I fully understood her。
It was at the time when my troubles were at their highest； and when
I was most incensed against my lover for his ingratitude in caring as
little as he did for the innumerable distresses and mortifications I
underwent on his account； that your dear friend； Mr Gowan； appeared
at the house。 He had been intimate there for a long time； but had been
abroad。 He understood the state of things at a glance； and he understood
me。
He was the first person I had ever seen in my life who had understood
me。 He was not in the house three times before I knew that he
acpanied every movement of my mind。 In his coldly easy way with all
of them； and with me； and with the whole subject； I saw it clearly。
In his light protestations of admiration of my future husband； in his